How to make the right choice in marriage

                

My name is Daddy Kham.                                              On this article am going to talk to you about marriage, how to make the right choice and not to make the same mistake that others have made           

                                    First, I will start with the definition of marriage.
   
Marriage is defined differently, based on cultural, religious and personal factors.
 My definition;  Marriage is a formal union, a social, and legal contract between two individuals that unites their lives legally, economically, and emotionally.

Am going to talk about marriage and how to go through it successfully and enjoy it throughout your life but not to endure.
And so if you want to have a successful family, blessed family and a happy family, it has to do with three people, Marriage is not a two fold cord, it's a three fold cord, that's you, your wife and God.

The thing is that God is the author of marriage, he was the one that instituted marriage, and so He knows and understand how marriage is suppose to be enacted and how it suppose to work and so if you take Him(God) out of the question and do it yourself, you will definitely fail, that is why a lot of us finds ourselves in the situation that we are now, that is why we chose wrongly, that is why many jump into it and are blindfolded, because they did not go back to the person who created it, the author of marriage who knows about marriage  and can teach you about it.
So when you are looking for choices, you must do it prayerfully, judiciously ask for guidance on who to choose as  the night person.
Not by sight, there is no particular girl for a particular guy because if it was the way the question on board is destructed by humanity because we all married wrongly, but there is a person that can work with you, complement you, makes you feel alright, gives you rest of mind, and also take good care of your home.
Not by saying yeah! my wife is Beautiful or my husband is handsome. 
Good! Physical appearance matters, But a beautiful woman that doesn't know her left and right, that can't do anything meaningful, that cannot help you as her partner is just like a calendar you buy for a purpose of decorating your house, just to make it beautiful, that Is all. She is  beautiful, fine! But she cannot do anything, likewise to a man.
Marry a person that can help you grow both physically and spiritually.
A person that can complement you and also walk with you all the days of your life. The Bible says; Can two walk together except they be in agreement?

So there is someone out there that God has prepared for you that can control your temperament, your personality, your character and so when you come together you will complement each other and go forward and achieve what God has already prepared for you and also achieve the goal that  you have both set out for yourself, that's how it works.
So you have a Determined factor in the sense that you have to make a choice so what am trying to say is that, You should try to know how to make the right choice and not how to know the right person. God will help you to make the right choice in Jesus Name...!
A lot of things are happening now a days so I advise you to read books 📚,  attend marriage seminars, you can get more on the internet through Google Search, get more knowledge and understanding and also backup with prayers for right directive to avoid making the same mistake that others have made, God bless you
abundantly.



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